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Are deep thinkers more lonely?
It’s no coincidence that some of the most intelligent people in history suffer from dark feelings of isolation. In fact, studies have shown that individuals with higher IQs tend to have lower social intelligence.
Some of the world’s smartest people have been outcasts, socially awkward and unaccepted among society. Others have been so wrapped up in their profound thoughts and discoveries that they’re simply unable to connect with anyone outside of their own heads.
Are deep thinkers more lonely? Probably.
Most of the interactions with those around us are superficial and rather shallow. Much of society shares the same common interests and engages in monotonous conversations, whether that be related to TV shows, current events, or the weather.
It’s easy for the average person to strike up a conversation and form a bond with a friend, co-worker, or even a stranger.
But higher-intelligence individuals don’t necessarily participate in this type of surface-level communication. Rather, they’re more invested in thinking deeply.
Maybe deep thinkers are more lonely because they’re perceived as outcasts. Or maybe it’s because they intentionally choose to be lonely.
Regardless, being lonely can be a gift—one that provides intellects and deep thinkers with the freedom to explore their own minds.
The ability to detach from the distractions that take place in our world is an incredible challenge and the space to think deeply is a privilege. Sometimes being lonely, whether intentional or not, can be very advantageous.
Many of the great thinkers before our time have been lonely. And for that, I’d argue that the world is a better place because of it.
